A social habit in the Arabian world..
He puts on his clothes.. goes all the way to the suitor.. (aka the hero in his dream).. he tells him.. i found a bride for u.. the prettiest creature on earth.. if u see her.. u'll pray for me.. (hated3ili ya3ni :-p)..
Then the nosy man, goes to the father of the bride.. (aka heroine).. Lying at him.. saying that someone has seen his daughter somewhere.. (may be in a supermarket or at the butcher's) and was touched by her politeness and beauty.. and this guy.. is asking to get close (taleb el orb ya3ni :-p)
The Guy.. wants to know and see how beautiful the bride is.. may be she is the One..
The Gal.. also wants to see, who's that guy, who was attracted to her.. ( as she was told).. is he handsome?.. what's his job?.. what's his ambition in life??.. is he Mr.Right??
They meet.. sometimes it works,, sometimes NOT..
BUT, If it works,,
This one lucky Nosy man,, lives HAPPILY EVER AFTER.. :-p
This one lucky Nosy man,, lives HAPPILY EVER AFTER.. :-p
WHY??
Why do we force people to get married? ( balash "force", let's say "help")
"Sawab" may be the reason.. for protecting the gal.. and the guy.. from sins.. ( aka.. illegal relationships)
But what about LOVE?
I BELIEVE in Stupid Cupid.. i won't choose the girl then ask for cupid to shoot me..
Cupid hunts,, and this is the charm of love.. U don't know when, who or where.. U just Fall in love..
That's why it's called.. falling in love.. not make urself fall in love,, duh!
The Difference..
The difference between falling in love, then crown this OVERWHELMING feeling with marriage,, is the CROWN..
and when u r in love "TRUE LOVE" nothing else actually matters..
LOVE.. <3 <3
Love is a holy feeling..
It's never about.. she's a good looking person
It's never about.. She's well-bred
She's going to be a good mother
She's going to be a good house wife
or the opposite..
It's never about.. he's a handsome guy
He's well-bred..
He's going to make a good dad..
He's going to be a successful man..
Marriage is much much much more,, than a contract
It's about spending the rest of ur life with ur soulmate..
love comes first..
and LOVE HAS NO RULES..
That person might not be the most beautiful person in the world.. ( but it's the person I LOVE)
That person might not be the wealthiest person in the world.. (but it's the person I LOVE)
Ironically, that person (Mr. or Mrs. Right) is never PERFECT..
LOVE is deeper.. much much deeper.. it's unexplained.. it never goes.. if someone told u it went away.. tell him, "then it wasn't there from the first place"..
Love is completely different from the so-called "ACCEPTANCE"
LOVE is the FUEL that will help Life GO ON,, no matter how difficult it is..
Acceptance,, will just force u to accept ur choices..
and with the accumulation of life problems..
U may wish u had married that person from the past,, the person u had loved one time..
or if u didn't fall in love b4,,
it may make u unwillingly search for that person at some point of ur life..
....Even if ONLY in ur DREAMS!!
Marriage is a private bond between two persons..
It is not a time train.. anytime is right,, when u find Mr or Mrs RIGHT.. no matter how old are u..
It is not sex.. real sex.. is wrapped by true emotions.. otherwise,, u don't know what u r missing!
Just Be Patient.. Love does exist..
The legend of STUPID CUPID is TRUE..
"HAPPILY EVER AFTER.."
It's all about "YOU"..
you can make it true..
<3 <3 <3
or you can just read about it..
"As for me, when i get married to Mrs Right,, i'll make sure,, cupid is the cause,, NOT Mr or Mrs Nosy person!!",
S for Shiko