HAPPILY EVER AFTER

Arranged Marriage..

A social habit in the Arabian world.. 

A so-called nosy person, dreams (or pretend so) of seeing two lovely birds together,, he believes that this dream is a vision.. and God has sent him to unite these two hearts together!!

He puts on his clothes.. goes all the way to the suitor.. (aka the hero in his dream).. he tells him.. i found a bride for u.. the prettiest creature on earth.. if u see her.. u'll pray for me.. (hated3ili ya3ni :-p)..

Then the nosy man, goes to the father of the bride.. (aka heroine).. Lying at him.. saying that someone has seen his daughter somewhere.. (may be in a supermarket or at the butcher's) and was touched by her politeness and beauty.. and this guy.. is asking to get close (taleb el orb ya3ni :-p)

The Guy.. wants to know and see how beautiful the bride is.. may be she is the One..

The Gal.. also wants to see, who's that guy, who was attracted to her.. ( as she was told).. is he handsome?..  what's his job?.. what's his ambition in life??.. is he Mr.Right??

They meet.. sometimes it works,, sometimes NOT..

BUT, If it works,,

This one lucky Nosy man,, lives HAPPILY EVER AFTER.. :-p

WHY??

Why do we force people to get married? ( balash "force", let's say "help")

"Sawab" may be the reason.. for protecting the gal.. and the guy.. from sins.. ( aka.. illegal relationships)

But what about LOVE?

Do we choose to fall in love? or is it Stupid Cupid??

I BELIEVE in Stupid Cupid.. i won't choose the girl then ask for cupid to shoot me.. 

Cupid hunts,, and this is the charm of love.. U don't know when, who or where.. U just Fall in love..

That's why it's called.. falling in love.. not make urself fall in love,, duh!

The Difference..

The difference between falling in love, then crown this OVERWHELMING feeling with marriage,, is the CROWN..

and when u r in love "TRUE LOVE" nothing else actually matters..

unlike when u marry someone just because he's a GOOD CHOICE, then you feel like loving him.. (SO FAKE)

How hard you try,, u'll never reach the extreme love.. Especially, if u had tasted it B4.. That taste will never be compensated,, unless u find someone who'll take u to a new world.. erasing every'THING' u experienced in ur past,,

LOVE.. <3 <3

Love is a holy feeling..

It's never about.. she's a good looking person

It's never about.. She's well-bred

She's going to be a good mother

She's going to be a good house wife 

or the opposite..

It's never about.. he's a handsome guy

He's well-bred..

He's going to make a good dad..

He's going to be a successful man..

Marriage is much much much more,, than a contract

It's about spending the rest of ur life with ur soulmate..

love comes first..

and LOVE HAS NO RULES..

u live only Once... 

Why would u miss such a moment??!!

for a moment like this?!

????

That person might not be the most beautiful person in the world.. ( but it's the person I LOVE)

That person might not be the wealthiest person in the world.. (but it's the person I LOVE)

Ironically, that person (Mr. or Mrs. Right)  is never PERFECT.. 

what's perfect.. is that marvelous feeling of satisfaction when u r with him..

LOVE is deeper.. much much deeper.. it's unexplained.. it never goes.. if someone told u it went away.. tell him, "then it wasn't there from the first place".. 

Love is completely different from the so-called "ACCEPTANCE"

LOVE is the FUEL that will help Life GO ON,, no matter how difficult it is..

Acceptance,, will just force u to accept ur choices..

and with the accumulation of life problems..

U may wish u had married that person from the past,, the person u had loved one time.. 

or if u didn't fall in love b4,, 

it may make u unwillingly search for that person at some point of ur life.. 

....Even if ONLY in ur DREAMS!!

Marriage is a private bond between two persons..

It is not a social image.. What's the use of the social image when u lack happiness?

It is not a time train.. anytime is right,, when u find Mr or Mrs RIGHT.. no matter how old are u.. 

It is not sex.. real sex.. is wrapped by true emotions.. otherwise,, u don't know what u r missing!

Just Be Patient.. Love does exist.. 

The legend of STUPID CUPID is TRUE.. 

 "HAPPILY EVER AFTER.." 

It's all about "YOU"..

you can make it true..

<3 <3 <3

or you can just read about it..

THE END

"As for me, when i get married to Mrs Right,, i'll make sure,, cupid is the cause,, NOT Mr or Mrs Nosy person!!",

                                                                          S for Shiko